You were the only place i could think of to go to ask this: how does someone prepare for anal/fisting/fingering? If they've never had anything up the butt how do they get ready so its not messy or anything...? Is there anyway to slowly prepare for it so it doesn't stretch and hurt so much? And how do you get it clean enough right before? Thanks!
most people evacuate bowels beforehand, if want to be real clean I’ve heard some use an enema. as for stretching and pain… use a good lube and take it slow. Don’t ” force it” enjoy it.